Knowing what we are not often comes before knowing what we are.
Whatever the reason,
Dreams are idle thoughts. Goals are accomplished through planning and action,
Have you done all you can to change things? If not, why would you assume invisible assistance?
A faulty plan leads to a faulty result. Every time. Always double check your plans.
Parents aren’t the only factor involved in your maturation, only so much blame can be put on others.
It is always a bad idea to base the future on the successes of the past. The future is based on present actions, not memories.￼ It is built in the present from our words, thoughts, and actions. What are you doing now? Building a future or wallowing in the past?
Everyone has a unique set of issues and troubles to deal with. Try not to get caught up in playing “My pain is greater than your pain”.
If you are not sure you are correct, check again before acting. It is better to take extra time to make sure you are right.