Accepting things as they are is the first step to growth. Admitting things need to change is the second step.
If you fish everyday you will not catch a fish everyday.
Confusing thoughts with reality is the same as living in a deluded world of whimsy and fantasy.
You cannot give yourself to pointless busy work
You do more than live your life. You also create it.
Erroneous expectations are the number one cause of evolutionary mishaps.
Only when being who you are hurts will growth be possible.
Action for the sake of acting is to be avoided. If you cannot improve the situation, wait until you can.
Be able to respond as opposed to just reacting is the first step to becoming yourself.
Punishment has no place on the road to evolution.